Whenever I was upset by something in the papers, [Jack] always told me to be more tolerant, like a horse flicking away flies in the summer.
Jackie KennedyRead
Can anyone understand how it is to have lived in the White House and then, suddenly, to be living alone as the President's widow?
Interpretation
The quote expresses the profound loneliness experienced by a person who has lost their partner, especially in a position of power.
Jackie Kennedy's quote reflects on the stark contrast between the public life of living in the White House with the support of a partner and the isolation felt after becoming a widow. It underscores the emotional turmoil and sense of solitude that follows the loss of a loved one, particularly in a position that is often seen as glamorous and powerful.
In practice
During a memorial service, you might quote Jackie Kennedy to highlight the deep sense of loss experienced when a loved one passes away.
Whenever I was upset by something in the papers, [Jack] always told me to be more tolerant, like a horse flicking away flies in the summer.
I think my biggest achievement is that, after going through a rather difficult time, I consider myself comparatively sane.
The only routine with me is no routine at all.
Even though people may be well known they still hold in their hearts the emotions of a simple person for the moments that are the most important of those we know on earth - birth, marriage, death.
Even though people may be well known, they hold in their hearts the emotions of a simple person for the moments that are the most important of those we know on earth: birth, marriage and death.
Now, I think that I should have known that he was magic all along. I did know it - but I should have guessed that it would be too much to ask to grow old with and see our children grow up together. So now, he is a legend when he would have preferred to be a man.
Has there not been, sometimes, this temptation to do a great deal for Christ, but not to live a great deal with Christ?
All the men I fall for seem to have a commitment problem.
I remember talking to someone early on after I was sober about how I suddenly felt awkward at parties. They said, 'Well, you're supposed to. Everyone feels awkward at parties.' It's an appropriate feeling to feel.
I saw men whom thirty years had changed but slightly; but their wives had grown old. These were good women; it is very wearing to be good.
Perhaps the great renewal of the world will consist of this, that man and woman, freed of all confused feelings and desires, shall no longer seek each other as opposites, but simply as members of a family and neighbors, and will unite as human beings, in order to simply, earnestly, patiently, and jointly bear the heavy responsibility of sexuality that has been entrusted to them.
Here in America, we don't let our differences tear us apart. Not here. Because we know that our greatness comes from when we appreciate each other's strengths, when we learn from each other, when we lean on each other, because in this country, it's never been each person for themselves. No, we're all in this together. We always have been.
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