I've been running my whole life. Running into bars, running around the world. But when you have a child, you can't run. That was a revelation.
Craig FergusonRead
I remember talking to someone early on after I was sober about how I suddenly felt awkward at parties. They said, 'Well, you're supposed to. Everyone feels awkward at parties.' It's an appropriate feeling to feel.
Interpretation
Feeling awkward at social events is a common experience, and it's okay to acknowledge it.
In this quote, Craig Ferguson reflects on the universal nature of social awkwardness, especially in situations like parties. He communicates that the feeling of discomfort is not unique to him or anyone in recovery; rather, it is a shared human experience, suggesting that it is perfectly normal to feel out of place in social settings. This realization can help individuals embrace their feelings rather than judge themselves for them.
In practice
This quote can be used as a comforting reminder during a speech on overcoming social anxiety.
I've been running my whole life. Running into bars, running around the world. But when you have a child, you can't run. That was a revelation.
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I think when you become a parent you go from being a star in the movie of your own life to the supporting player in the movie of someone else's.
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I hope to have communion with the people, that is the most important thing.
I’m not used to girls, or familiar with their customs. I feel awkward around them, I don’t know what to say. I know the unspoken rules of boys, but with girls I sense that I am always on the verge of some unforeseen, calamitous blunder.
I don't want to be your other half. I believe that one and one make two.
Some of our loves and attachments are elemental and beyond our choosing, and for that very reason they come spiced with pain and regret and need and hollowness and a feeling as close to anger as I will ever be able to manage.
A prerequisite to empathy is simply paying attention to the person in pain.
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