I've been running my whole life. Running into bars, running around the world. But when you have a child, you can't run. That was a revelation.
Craig FergusonRead
I remember talking to someone early on after I was sober about how I suddenly felt awkward at parties. They said, 'Well, you're supposed to. Everyone feels awkward at parties.' It's an appropriate feeling to feel.
Interpretation
Feeling awkward at social events is a common experience, and it's okay to acknowledge it.
In this quote, Craig Ferguson reflects on the universal nature of social awkwardness, especially in situations like parties. He communicates that the feeling of discomfort is not unique to him or anyone in recovery; rather, it is a shared human experience, suggesting that it is perfectly normal to feel out of place in social settings. This realization can help individuals embrace their feelings rather than judge themselves for them.
In practice
This quote can be used as a comforting reminder during a speech on overcoming social anxiety.
I've been running my whole life. Running into bars, running around the world. But when you have a child, you can't run. That was a revelation.
A lot of people come to L.A. looking for something. What I came here for, I realize now, is to be okay with myself.
I think when you become a parent you go from being a star in the movie of your own life to the supporting player in the movie of someone else's.
If I start giving people what they like I'll turn into one of them and I don't want to be one of them I want to be one of me.
When I stopped drinking, it was only because I thought if I don't stop, I'm going to die.
The Universe is very, very big. It also loves a paradox. For example, it has some extremely strict rules. Rule number one: Nothing lasts forever. Not you or your family or your house or your planet or the sun. It is an absolute rule. Therefore when someone says that their love will never die, it means that their love is not real, for everything that is real dies. Rule number two: Everything lasts forever.
People - especially white people - they want me to be a role model just because of the life I lead. The things I say in my songs, they expect it of me.
Well, I think when we can turn to the person sitting next to us and really see them with kindness and see ourselves reflected back - when there's some dignity and compassion traveling back and forth.
The kind of caring that the client-centered therapist desires to achieve is a gullible caring, in which clients are accepted as they say they are, not with a lurking suspicion in the therapist's mind that they may, in fact, be otherwise. This attitude is not stupidity on the therapist's part; it is the kind of attitude that is most likely to lead to trust.
If a man makes me keep my distance, the comfort is, he keeps his at the same time.
I used to think that I could never lose anyone if I photographed them enough. In fact, my pictures show me how much Iβve lost.
But that is how men are! Ungrateful and never satisfied. When you don't have them they hate you because you won't; and when you do have them they hate you again, for some other reason. Or for no reason at all, except that they are discontented children, and can't be satisfied whatever they get, let a woman do what she may.
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