I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinions of himself than on the opinions of others.
Marcus AureliusRead
Art thou angry with him whose armpits stink? Art thou angry with him whose mouth smells foul?
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the nature of anger and the acceptance of human imperfections.
In this quote, Marcus Aurelius questions the rationale behind feeling anger towards someone who has imperfections, such as body odor. It encourages a sense of understanding and compassion toward others, reminding us that everyone has their flaws and that anger is not a productive response to the natural human condition.
Themes
AngerAcceptanceImperfectionsCompassionHumanity
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a discussion about managing conflict in relationships.
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