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Am I jealous? he thought, astonished. Jealous of the chance object to which she has attached herself? Jealous of something that does not concern me? One can be jealous of a love that has turned away, but not of that to which it has turned.
Erich Maria Remarque
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote explores the complexity of jealousy in love, questioning the validity of feeling envy over someone else's affections.

In this quote, the speaker reflects on the nature of jealousy, contemplating whether it is rational to feel envious of someone who has chosen to love another. The complexity of love and relationships is highlighted, suggesting that one might experience jealousy over a lost love, yet these feelings are complicated when it comes to being jealous of affection directed elsewhere, which seems unrelated to oneself.

Themes

JealousyLoveRelationshipsEmotionAffection

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Example use cases

In a discussion about the complexities of relationships, this quote can illustrate the feelings of jealousy that accompany love.

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