You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Elizabeth GilbertRead
To lose balance sometimes for love is part of living a balanced life.
Interpretation
Experiencing imbalance for love is essential to truly living well.
Elizabeth Gilbert's quote highlights the idea that love often requires sacrifices and moments of imbalance in our lives. This imbalance, rather than being negative, is portrayed as a necessary aspect of a fulfilling and balanced life, suggesting that true happiness often comes from embracing the chaos that love can bring.
In practice
During a wedding speech, you might say, 'As Elizabeth Gilbert wisely noted, to lose balance for love is part of living a balanced life.'
You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Do not apologize for crying. Without this emotion, we are only robots.
I had always been taught that the pursuit of happiness was my natural (even national) birthright. It is the emotional trademark of my culture to seek happiness. Not just any kind of happiness, either, but profound happiness, even soaring happiness. And what could possibly bring a person more soaring happiness than romantic love.
When I tried this morning, after an hour or so of unhappy thinking, to dip back into my meditation, I took a new idea with me: compassion. I asked my heart if it could please infuse my soul with a more generous perspective on my mind's workings. Instead of thinking that I was a failure, could I perhaps accept that I am only a human being--and a normal one, at that?
And when you sense a faint potentiality for happiness after such dark times you must grab onto the ankles of that happiness and not let go until it drags you face-first out of the dirt - this is not selfishness, but obligation. You were given life; it is your duty to find something beautiful within life no matter how slight.
But never again use another person's body or emotions as a scratching post for your own unfulfilling yearnings.
Oh, if it be to choose and call thee mine, love, thou art every day my Valentine!
Love is a binding force, by which another is joined to me and cherished by myself.
Some cry: 'Love me!!' Others: 'Don't love me!!' But a certain genus, the worst and most unhappy, cries: 'Don't love me and be faithful to me!!'
That is what fame is, isn't it? To get the world to fall in love with you.
The real lover is the man who can thrill you just by touching your head or smiling into your eyes - or just by staring into space.
Whatever our religion, we know that if we really want to love, we must first learn to forgive before anything else.
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