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For, just as in the beginning it is formed by desire, so afterwards love is kept in existence only by painful anxiety.
Marcel Proust
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Love begins with desire and continues through the struggles and anxieties that come with it.

In this quote, Marcel Proust reflects on the dual nature of love, suggesting that while it may originate from a passionate desire, its enduring essence often relies on the challenges and anxieties faced by those in love. This emphasizes the complexity of love, portraying it as a blend of both joyful and painful experiences that demand effort and resilience to maintain.

Themes

LoveDesireAnxietyRelationshipsEmotion

In practice

Example use cases

This quote could be shared during a wedding speech to highlight the depth of love.

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