What we want is to see the child in pursuit of knowledge, and not knowledge in pursuit of the child.
George Bernard ShawRead
The best bought-up children are those who have seen thier parents as they are. Hypocrisy is not the first duty of a parent.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Children learn from their parents' authenticity rather than their facade.
This quote emphasizes the importance of authenticity in parenting. George Bernard Shaw highlights that for children to develop properly, they need to see their parents as they truly are, rather than living in a facade of hypocrisy. Genuine behavior from parents sets a strong example for children, fostering an environment of honesty and integrity.
Themes
AuthenticityParentingChildrenHypocrisyTruth
In practice
Example use cases
During a parenting workshop, I could use this quote to highlight the importance of being a role model.
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