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Better guilt than the terrible burden of freedom and responsibility.
Ernest Becker
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What this quote means

Guilt can sometimes feel less heavy than the weight of total freedom and the responsibilities that come with it.

In this quote, Ernest Becker suggests that experiencing guilt is often preferable to the overwhelming nature of absolute freedom and the associated responsibilities. He implies that with freedom comes the necessity of making choices and facing consequences, which can be burdensome; therefore, feelings of guilt may serve as a reminder of one’s moral compass, which can help navigate the complexities of freedom and responsibility.

Themes

GuiltFreedomResponsibilityBurdenPhilosophy

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about the challenges of adult life, this quote can highlight the burden of making important choices.

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