Better guilt than the terrible burden of freedom and responsibility.
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If the love object is divine perfection, then one's own self is elevated by joining one's destiny to it... All our guilt, fear, and even our mortality itself can be purged in a perfect consummation with perfection itself.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Connecting with an ideal love can lead to personal elevation and liberation from negative emotions.
This quote reflects the idea that when one forms a connection with what they perceive as divine perfection or ideal love, it can have profound effects on their own self-worth and existence. By aligning oneself with such perfection, an individual can shed feelings of guilt, fear, and the burdens of mortality, finding a sense of peace and fulfillment in the process.
Themes
LovePerfectionSelfDestinyElevation
In practice
Example use cases
In a wedding ceremony, the officiant might say this quote to highlight the power of love in elevating a couple.
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