You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Elizabeth GilbertRead
I am burdened with what the Buddhists call the 'monkey mind' -- the thoughts that swing from limb to limb, stopping only to scratch themselves, spit and howl.
Interpretation
The quote describes the restless and scattered nature of thoughts in a busy mind.
In this quote, Elizabeth Gilbert uses the metaphor of a 'monkey mind' to illustrate the chaotic and uncontrollable stream of thoughts that often occupy our minds. Just as a monkey moves erratically, jumping from one branch to another without focus, our thoughts can be similarly scattered, leading to distraction and a lack of mental clarity. This describes the challenge many face in achieving mindfulness and peace within their own minds.
In practice
While discussing mental health in a workshop.
You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Do not apologize for crying. Without this emotion, we are only robots.
I had always been taught that the pursuit of happiness was my natural (even national) birthright. It is the emotional trademark of my culture to seek happiness. Not just any kind of happiness, either, but profound happiness, even soaring happiness. And what could possibly bring a person more soaring happiness than romantic love.
When I tried this morning, after an hour or so of unhappy thinking, to dip back into my meditation, I took a new idea with me: compassion. I asked my heart if it could please infuse my soul with a more generous perspective on my mind's workings. Instead of thinking that I was a failure, could I perhaps accept that I am only a human being--and a normal one, at that?
And when you sense a faint potentiality for happiness after such dark times you must grab onto the ankles of that happiness and not let go until it drags you face-first out of the dirt - this is not selfishness, but obligation. You were given life; it is your duty to find something beautiful within life no matter how slight.
But never again use another person's body or emotions as a scratching post for your own unfulfilling yearnings.
Imagination magnifies small objects with fantastic exaggeration until they fill our soul, and with bold insolence cuts down great things to its own size, as when speaking of God.
We are governed, our minds are molded, our tastes formed, our ideas suggested, largely by men we have never heard of. This is a logical result of the way in which our democratic society is organized. Vast numbers of human beings must cooperate in this manner if they are to live together as a smoothly functioning society.
My voice is born repeatedly in the fields of uncertainty.
Since it is difficult to join them together, it is safer to be feared than to be loved when one of the two must be lacking.
Nothing is so difficult as not deceiving oneself.
Where God tears great gaps we should not try to fill them with human words.
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