QuoteProject
Those who say they will forgive but can't forget, simply bury the hatchet but leave the handle out for immediate use.
Dwight L. Moody
ShareWTF𝕏

Interpretation

What this quote means

Forgiveness is incomplete if one still holds on to past grievances.

This quote highlights the concept that true forgiveness involves not just a verbal declaration but also a genuine emotional release of past offenses. If a person claims to forgive yet continues to hold onto the memory of the wrong, they are not fully letting go, which can lead to recurring resentment and hinder personal growth and relationships.

Themes

ForgivenessResentmentRelationshipsLetting GoGrievance

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be used in a discussion about improving interpersonal relationships by fostering true forgiveness.

More from Dwight L. Moody

We are told to let our light shine, and if it does, we won't need to tell anybody it does. Lighthouses don't fire cannons to call attention to their shining- they just shine.
Dwight L. MoodyRead
There is the joy of one's own salvation. I thought, when I first tasted that, it was the most delicious joy I had ever known, and that I could never get beyond it. But I found, afterward, there was something more joyful that, namely, the joy of the salvation of others.
Dwight L. MoodyRead
'Faith cometh by hearing and hearing by the Word of God' (Rom. 10:17). That is whence faith comes. It is not for me to sit down and wait for faith to come stealing over me with a strong sensation, but is for me to take God at His Word.
Dwight L. MoodyRead
There is no greater honour than to be the instrument in God's hands of leading one person out of the kingdom of Satan into the glorious light of Heaven.
Dwight L. MoodyRead
Many a professing Christian is a stumbling-block because his worship is divided. On Sunday he worships God; on weekdays God has little or no place in his thoughts.
Dwight L. MoodyRead
Let us expect that God is going to use us. Let us have courage and go forward, looking to God to do great things.
Dwight L. MoodyRead

Similar quotes

Invest in great relationships, they will pay a lifetime of dividends.
Bill WalshRead
There is, inside all our heads, the ego’s rabid attack dog. It is purely vicious toward others and toward ourselves as well. Learning to control that dog, and ultimately to end its life, is the process and purpose of enlightened relationships.
Marianne WilliamsonRead
When a Cat adopts you, and I am not superstitious at all I don't mean only Black cats there is nothing to be done about it except to put up with it and wait until the wind changes.
T. S. EliotRead
Every single American - gay, straight, lesbian, bisexual, transgender - every single American deserves to be treated equally in the eyes of the law and in the eyes of our society. It’s a pretty simple proposition.
Barack ObamaRead
And that really captures the difference for the bullied straight kid versus the bullied gay kid, is that the bullied straight kid goes home to a shoulder to cry on and support and can talk freely about his experience at school and why he's being bullied. [...] And I couldn't go home and open up to my parents.
Dan SavageRead
Whenever a husband and wife begin to discuss their marriage they are giving evidence at a coroner's inquest.
H. L. MenckenRead

A little wisdom, now and then

Subscribe for the occasional hand-picked quote. No noise.