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In any case, community is not about perfect people. It is about people who are bonded to each other, each of whom is a mixture of good and bad, darkness and light, love and hate.
Jean Vanier
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Community consists of imperfect individuals who connect through their shared experiences and emotions.

In this quote, Jean Vanier emphasizes that true community is built not on the expectation of perfection, but rather on the acceptance of each person's complexities. It acknowledges that everyone has both strengths and weaknesses, and it is this mix of qualities—light and darkness, love and hate—that fosters deeper connections among people, creating a richer, more authentic community spirit.

Themes

CommunityConnectionImperfectionRelationshipsAcceptance

In practice

Example use cases

During a community gathering, one might share this quote to highlight the importance of embracing each other's flaws.

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