Community is a sign that love is possible in a materialistic world where people so often either ignore or fight each other. It is a sign that we don't need a lot of money to be happy--in fact, the opposite.
Jean VanierRead
When we begin to believe that there is greater joy in working with and for others, rather than just for ourselves, then our society will truly become a place of celebration.
Interpretation
True joy comes from collaboration and serving others, leading to a more vibrant society.
The quote emphasizes the importance of collective effort and altruism in fostering a joyful community. When individuals recognize that their fulfillment is derived not only from personal achievements but also from contributing to the well-being of others, it cultivates an environment where celebration and connection thrive. This perspective shifts the focus from individualism to a shared communal experience, ultimately enriching society as a whole.
In practice
During a community meeting to encourage volunteerism, this quote can inspire attendees.
Community is a sign that love is possible in a materialistic world where people so often either ignore or fight each other. It is a sign that we don't need a lot of money to be happy--in fact, the opposite.
One of the marvelous things about community is that it enables us to welcome and help people in a way we couldn't as individuals. When we pool our strength and share the work and responsibility, we can welcome many people, even those in deep distress, and perhaps help them find self-confidence and inner healing.
We all know well that we can do things for others and in the process crush them, making them feel that they are incapable of doing things by themselves. To love someone is to reveal to them their capacities for life, the light that is shining in them.
True peace can rarely be imposed from the outside; it must be born within and between communities through meetings and dialogue and then carried outward.
In any case, community is not about perfect people. It is about people who are bonded to each other, each of whom is a mixture of good and bad, darkness and light, love and hate.
We have to remind ourselves constantly that we are not saviours. We are simply a tiny sign, among thousands of others, that love is possible, that the world is not condemned to a struggle between oppressors and oppressed, that class and racial warfare is not inevitable.
The need to become a separate self is as urgent as the yearning to merge forever. And as long as we, not our mother, initiate parting, and as long as our mother remains reliably there, it seems possible to risk, and even to revel in, standing alone.
There are many things my father taught me here in this room. He taught me: keep your friends close, but your enemies closer.
Men have always detested women's gossip because they suspect the truth: their measurements are being taken and compared.
He was so generally civil, that nobody thanked him for it.
If there was more courting in marriage, there'd be fewer marriages in court. Date your mate. Today.
Basic human contact - the meeting of eyes, the exchanging of words - is to the psyche what oxygen is to the brain. If you're feeling abandoned by the world, interact with anyone you can.
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