It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.
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We are tempted to believe that certain achievements and possessions will give us enduring satisfaction. We are invited to imagine ourselves scaling the steep cliff face of happiness in order to reach a wide, high plateau on which we will live out the rest of our lives; we are not reminded that soon after gaining the summit, we will be called down again into fresh lowlands of anxiety and desire.
Interpretation
What this quote means
True happiness is not found in achievements or possessions but is rather a continual journey that involves ups and downs.
In this quote, Alain De Botton highlights the misconception that lasting happiness can be attained through external achievements or material possessions. He emphasizes that while we may feel temporary joy upon reaching a goal, we often find ourselves facing new challenges and desires, reminding us that happiness is not a final destination but a dynamic experience that requires ongoing awareness and effort.
Themes
HappinessSatisfactionAchievementsDesireJourney
In practice
Example use cases
During a motivational seminar, this quote can be shared to emphasize the importance of valuing the journey of life over static achievements.
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