It has become necessary for me to have this woman, so as to save myself from the ridicule of being in love with her: for to what lengths will a man not be driven by thwarted desire?
Pierre Choderlos De LaclosRead
How characteristic of your perverse heart that longs only for what happens to be out of reach.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote reflects on the human tendency to desire what we cannot attain.
In this quote, Pierre Choderlos De Laclos highlights a common trait of human nature: the inclination to yearn for things that are beyond our grasp. This longing can stem from a complex interplay of desire and dissatisfaction, suggesting that people often find themselves fixated on unattainable goals, leading to an unfulfilled existence. It serves as a reminder of the challenges and paradoxes of human aspiration.
Themes
DesireLongingHuman NatureAspirationUnattainable
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about overcoming desires, one could use this quote to illustrate the futility of chasing the unattainable.
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