Anger repressed can poison a relationship as surely as the crudest words.
Joyce BrothersRead
If a child is given love, he becomes loving ... If he's helped when he needs help, he becomes helpful. And if he has been truly valued at home ... he grows up secure enough to look beyond himself to the welfare of others.
Interpretation
Loving and supportive upbringing fosters children's empathy and helpfulness.
This quote by Joyce Brothers emphasizes the profound impact that a nurturing and loving environment can have on a child's development. A child who receives love and support is more likely to grow into a compassionate and helpful adult, who is not only secure in themselves but also capable of caring for the well-being of others. This highlights the importance of positive relationships and the role of family in shaping character.
In practice
In a parenting workshop discussing the importance of emotional support for children.
Anger repressed can poison a relationship as surely as the crudest words.
Don't always try to be popular. It isn't possible for everyone to like you. It's far more important for you to like yourself. And when you respect yourself, strangely, you get more respect than when you court it from others.
Feeling gratitude isn't born in us-it's something we are taught, and in turn, we teach our children.
Accept that all of us can be hurt, that all of us can and surely will at times fail. Other vulnerabilities, like being embarrassed or risking love, can be terrifying, too. I think we should follow a simple rule: if we can take the worst, take the risk.
Listening, not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery.
I have emerged from the tunnel of grief into the light. Life is better. Not the same, but good and getting better all the time.
The strategy we need to pursue is one of recovering our time - to push back on our hours of work. We need to form a new alliance between feminist groups, labor unions, child advocates, progressive corporations, and the federal government insofar as it's willing to pursue a family-friendly agenda.
To nourish children and raise them against odds is in any time, any place, more valuable than to fix bolts in cars or design nuclear weapons.
My family is no different from yours. We may be different from the geography that we come from. Some of you all may pray differently than I do, some of you all may be from a different ethnicity, but we all have the same story.
It doesn't matter how old you are, or what you do in your life, you never stop needing your mom.
I still vividly remember the moment I let go of an embrace with my daughter on her college campus - that, in her opinion, probably lasted far too long. I left the most precious thing in my life in the care of an institution, and that's a very hard thing to do.
I love my family, even as I critique their dysfunctionalities.
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