Anger repressed can poison a relationship as surely as the crudest words.
Joyce BrothersRead
If a child is given love, he becomes loving ... If he's helped when he needs help, he becomes helpful. And if he has been truly valued at home ... he grows up secure enough to look beyond himself to the welfare of others.
Interpretation
Loving and supportive upbringing fosters children's empathy and helpfulness.
This quote by Joyce Brothers emphasizes the profound impact that a nurturing and loving environment can have on a child's development. A child who receives love and support is more likely to grow into a compassionate and helpful adult, who is not only secure in themselves but also capable of caring for the well-being of others. This highlights the importance of positive relationships and the role of family in shaping character.
In practice
In a parenting workshop discussing the importance of emotional support for children.
Anger repressed can poison a relationship as surely as the crudest words.
Don't always try to be popular. It isn't possible for everyone to like you. It's far more important for you to like yourself. And when you respect yourself, strangely, you get more respect than when you court it from others.
Feeling gratitude isn't born in us-it's something we are taught, and in turn, we teach our children.
Accept that all of us can be hurt, that all of us can and surely will at times fail. Other vulnerabilities, like being embarrassed or risking love, can be terrifying, too. I think we should follow a simple rule: if we can take the worst, take the risk.
Listening, not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery.
I have emerged from the tunnel of grief into the light. Life is better. Not the same, but good and getting better all the time.
It's important for a parent to learn to take delight in a child whose behavior might seem mystifying. In the case of an extroverted parent with an introverted child, it can be learning to see the inner riches of your child that may not always be expressed on the surface - but are there.
My only concern is playing. Everything else, my family looks after. In our house, everyone has a job, and my job in our house is to play football.
For me, the most important thing that I have to accomplish is to be a good father. That's the most difficult challenge of my life. That's the most important thing for me, more than films.
~My instinct is to protect my children from pain. But adversity is often the thing that gives us character and backbone. It's always been a struggle for me to back off and let my children go through difficult experiences.~
My mom was a terrible parent of young children. And thank God - I thank God every time I think of it - I was sent to my paternal grandmother. Ah, but my mother was a great parent of a young adult.
Motherhood is near to divinity. It is the highest, holiest service to be assumed by mankind.
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