Anger repressed can poison a relationship as surely as the crudest words.
Joyce BrothersRead
Feeling gratitude isn't born in us-it's something we are taught, and in turn, we teach our children.
Interpretation
Gratitude is learned and passed down through generations.
This quote emphasizes that gratitude is not an innate feeling, but rather a value that is cultivated through upbringing and experience. It suggests that we have a responsibility to instill this important trait in future generations, highlighting the role of education and parental guidance in shaping our emotional landscape.
In practice
During a parent-teacher meeting, I quoted Joyce Brothers to discuss the importance of teaching gratitude at home.
Anger repressed can poison a relationship as surely as the crudest words.
If a child is given love, he becomes loving ... If he's helped when he needs help, he becomes helpful. And if he has been truly valued at home ... he grows up secure enough to look beyond himself to the welfare of others.
Don't always try to be popular. It isn't possible for everyone to like you. It's far more important for you to like yourself. And when you respect yourself, strangely, you get more respect than when you court it from others.
Accept that all of us can be hurt, that all of us can and surely will at times fail. Other vulnerabilities, like being embarrassed or risking love, can be terrifying, too. I think we should follow a simple rule: if we can take the worst, take the risk.
Listening, not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery.
I have emerged from the tunnel of grief into the light. Life is better. Not the same, but good and getting better all the time.
All my life I have been trying to learn, to read, to see and hear, and to write. At sixty-five I began my first novel and after the five years, lacking a month, I took to finish it, I was still traveling, still a seeker.
Teach by doing whenever you can, and only fall back upon words when doing it is out of the question.
Language is like a road, it cannot be perceived all at once because it unfolds in time, whether heard or read. This narrative or temporal element has made writing and walking resemble each other.
I think that the training of architects allows you to see what will happen ten years ahead of time, or twenty. It's not guessing, it's not intuitive, it's based on research - and we may be wrong.
If you really want to change a culture to empower women improve basic hygiene and health care and fight high rates of infant mortality the answer is to educate girls.
Studying goes deeper than mere reading. There are surface nuggets to be gathered but the best of the gold is underneath, and it takes time and labor to secure it.
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