The only possible recourse a baby has when his screams are ignored is to repress his distress, which is tantamount to mutilating his soul, for the result is an interference with his ability to feel, to be aware, and to remember.
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All children are born to grow, to develop, to live, to love, and to articulate their needs and feelings for their self-protection
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the fundamental rights of children to grow and express themselves for their well-being.
Alice Miller's quote highlights the natural progression of children as they evolve through growth and development. It asserts that children have inherent rights not only to love and live, but also to communicate their needs and emotions, which is essential for their self-protection. This perspective champions the importance of nurturing environments where children can flourish and be heard.
Themes
ChildrenGrowthDevelopmentLoveSelf-ProtectionExpression
In practice
Example use cases
During a parenting workshop, one might use this quote to discuss the importance of supporting children's emotional expression.
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