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All children have to be deceived if they are to grow up without trauma.
Kazuo Ishiguro
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Children need a certain level of protective deception to shield them from harsh realities during their development.

Kazuo Ishiguro's quote suggests that childhood often involves a degree of deception or shielding from the harsh truths of the world. This protective layer allows children to develop without the burdens of trauma that could interfere with their growth and emotional well-being. It implies that some truths may be too heavy for young minds, and a gentle approach could foster healthier development.

Themes

ChildrenDeceptionTraumaGrowthProtection

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be referenced in a discussion about parenting styles at a parenting workshop.

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