In theory we understand people, but in practice we can't put up with them, I thought, deal with them for the most part reluctantly and always treat them from our point of view. We should observe and treat people not from our point of view but from all angles, I thought, associate with them in such a way that we can say we associate with them so to speak in a completely unbiased way, which however isn't possible, since we actually are always biased against everybody.
We have to keep company with supposedly bad characters if we are to survive and not succumb to mental atrophy. People of good character, so called, are the ones who end up boring us to death.
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What this quote means
Embracing diverse perspectives, even from those deemed undesirable, fosters mental growth and prevents stagnation.
This quote by Thomas Bernhard suggests that engaging with individuals who challenge our views or have different characteristics can stimulate our minds and promote intellectual vitality. In contrast, surrounding ourselves solely with those who conform to conventional standards of 'good character' may lead to predictable conversations that dull our curiosity and creativity, ultimately resulting in a stagnant mindset.
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Example use cases
During a panel discussion on creative thinking, you might use this quote to emphasize the importance of listening to unconventional ideas.
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