Only when I am by seawater can I truly breathe, to say nothing of my ability to think.
Thomas BernhardRead
In theory we understand people, but in practice we can't put up with them, I thought, deal with them for the most part reluctantly and always treat them from our point of view. We should observe and treat people not from our point of view but from all angles, I thought, associate with them in such a way that we can say we associate with them so to speak in a completely unbiased way, which however isn't possible, since we actually are always biased against everybody.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the difference between understanding people in theory and the challenge of accepting them in practice due to inherent biases.
Thomas Bernhard's quote explores the complexity of human relationships, suggesting that while we may intellectually grasp the nature of others, our emotional responses are often colored by our personal biases. He emphasizes the difficulty of truly understanding someone from a neutral standpoint, as our preconceived notions and experiences continuously influence our perceptions and interactions.
Themes
UnderstandingBiasPerceptionRelationshipsTheory
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about interpersonal relationships, one might reference this quote to highlight the concept of bias.
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