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Having compassion starts and ends with having compassion for all those unwanted parts of ourselves. The healing comes from letting there be room for all of this to happen: room for grief, for relief, for misery, for joy.
Pema Chodron
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Compassion involves accepting all aspects of ourselves, both positive and negative.

This quote emphasizes the importance of embracing not just our strengths and positive emotions, but also our vulnerabilities and pain. Pema Chodron suggests that true healing and self-acceptance come from creating space within ourselves for all feelings, allowing us to experience a holistic sense of compassion that ultimately leads to personal growth.

Themes

CompassionHealingSelf-AcceptanceEmotionsGrowth

In practice

Example use cases

Using this quote in a therapy session to discuss the importance of accepting all feelings.

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