The spiritual journey involves going beyond hope and fear, stepping into unknown territory, continually moving forward. The most important aspect of being on the spiritual path may be just to keep moving.
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Meditation practice isn’t about trying to throw ourselves away and become something better. It’s about befriending who we are already. The ground of practice is you or me or whoever we are right now, just as we are. That’s the ground, that’s what we study, that’s what we come to know with tremendous curiosity and interest.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Meditation is about accepting ourselves as we are rather than striving to become someone different.
Pema Chodron emphasizes that the essence of meditation is not about discarding our current selves or achieving an ideal version of ourselves. Instead, it is about developing a friendly relationship with who we truly are in the present moment, acknowledging our thoughts and feelings with curiosity and acceptance, which leads to a deeper understanding of ourselves.
Themes
MeditationSelf-AcceptanceCuriosityPresent-MomentMindfulness
In practice
Example use cases
Using this quote to inspire individuals in a meditation workshop.
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