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Finding the courage to go to the places that scare us cannot happen without compassionate inquiry into the workings of ego... Openness doesn't come from resisting our fears but from getting to know them well.
Pema Chodron
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What this quote means

Courage involves understanding our fears rather than avoiding them.

In this quote, Pema Chodron emphasizes that true courage is rooted in a deep understanding of our fears and ego. Instead of resisting or fleeing from what scares us, we must engage in compassionate self-inquiry to truly comprehend our internal struggles. By knowing our fears intimately, we create the openness needed to face them courageously, leading to personal growth and emotional resilience.

Themes

CourageFearUnderstandingEgoOpennessSelf-Inquiry

In practice

Example use cases

During a motivational speech, one could use this quote to encourage the audience to confront their fears in personal development.

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