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If there was more courting in marriage, there'd be fewer marriages in court. Date your mate. Today.
Rick Warren
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Prioritizing courtship in marriage can lead to stronger relationships and fewer legal issues. Couples should make an effort to date each other regularly.

Rick Warren emphasizes the importance of maintaining the spirit of courtship in a marriage to foster connection and avoid misunderstandings that may lead to legal disputes. By suggesting that partners 'date their mate,' he encourages couples to actively invest in their relationship, reinforcing love, commitment, and communication, essential elements for a lasting marriage.

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CourtshipMarriageRelationshipsDatingLove

In practice

Example use cases

In a wedding speech to highlight the importance of ongoing romance in marriage.

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