Learn to distinguish what you can and can't control. Within our control are our own opinions, aspirations, desires and the things that repel us. They are directly subject to our influence.
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Crows pick out the eyes of the dead, when the dead have no longer need of them; but flatterers mar the soul of the living, and her eyes they blind.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote warns against the harm caused by flatterers to the living, similar to how crows consume the dead.
Epictetus presents a stark contrast between the natural behavior of crows, which pick at the eyes of the deceased when they no longer need them, and the destructive influence of flatterers on the living. While crows act in accordance with survival instincts, flatterers corrupt the soul and vision of those still alive, illustrating the moral decay that can result from insincere praise and manipulation. This quote reflects deep insights into human relationships and the importance of sincerity over superficial admiration.
Themes
FlatteryDeceitWisdomSincerityRelationships
In practice
Example use cases
You could use this quote in a speech about the importance of authentic relationships.
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