Crows pick out the eyes of the dead, when the dead have no longer need of them; but flatterers mar the soul of the living, and her eyes they blind.
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Learn to distinguish what you can and can't control. Within our control are our own opinions, aspirations, desires and the things that repel us. They are directly subject to our influence.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Understand the limits of your control over situations and focus on what you can change.
This quote by Epictetus emphasizes the importance of recognizing the difference between what we can control and what we cannot. By understanding that our opinions, desires, and reactions are within our control, we can cultivate a mindset that focuses on personal empowerment and emotional resilience, leading to a more fulfilling life.
Themes
ControlOpinionsEmotionsResilienceInfluence
In practice
Example use cases
During a team meeting, someone can use this quote to remind others to focus on their perspectives instead of outside circumstances.
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Nothing truly stops you. Nothing truly holds you back. For your own will is always within your control. Sickness may challenge your body. But are you merely your body? Lameness may impede your legs. But you are not merely your legs. Your will is bigger than your legs. Your will needn't be affected by an incident unless you let it.
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