...not all encounters with the world affect the mind equally. Studies have demonstrated that if the brain appraises an event as "meaningful," it will be more likely to be recalled in the future.
Daniel J. SiegelRead
While the days of parenting may seem so long, the years are so short.
Interpretation
Parenting can feel overwhelming at times, but the years pass quickly.
This quote highlights the paradox of parenting: while each day can feel lengthy and exhausting, the years fly by in retrospect. It serves as a reminder to cherish the small moments and recognize that childhood is fleeting, encouraging parents to appreciate the present despite the challenges they face.
In practice
A parent sharing this quote during a parenting seminar to encourage others to enjoy their time with their kids.
...not all encounters with the world affect the mind equally. Studies have demonstrated that if the brain appraises an event as "meaningful," it will be more likely to be recalled in the future.
Early experience shapes the structure and function of the brain. This reveals the fundamental way in which gene expression is determined by experience.
Too often we forget that discipline really means to teach, not to punish. A disciple is a student, not a recipient of behavioural consequences.
We must keep in mind that only a part of memory can be translated into the language-based packets of information people use to tell their life stories to others. Learning to be open to many layers of communication is a fundamental part of getting to know another person's life.
For "full" emotional communication, one person needs to allow his state of mind to be influenced by that of the other.
Grief allows you to let go of something you have lost only when you begin to accept what you now have in its place. As our mind clings to the familiar, to our established expectations, we can become trapped in feelings of disappointment, confusion, anger, that create our own internal worlds of suffering.
It doesn't matter how old you are or what you do with your life, you will never stop needing your mum. And I will never stop needing mine, so thanks, Mum.
The place of the father in the modern suburban family is a very small one, particularly if he plays golf.
My mother's rules had to do with feminine deportment, so I never played hard enough to break a toy or muddy my dress. My father's rules had to do with never shaming the family by even a hint of scandal, and not providing business rivals with an opportunity to kidnap me or throw acid in my face.
I urge you to pursue preserving your personal history to allow your children and grandchildren to know who you were as a child and what your hopes and dreams were.
Motherhood is near to divinity. It is the highest, holiest service to be assumed by mankind.
People with children will know this: when the childcare is over, it's over on the dot. You immediately have to go into child mode; there's no down time.
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