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My desire was no less than before, you understand, but I no longer identified with the desire. Perhaps that is why taking them too seriously, we not only increase our susceptibility to disappointment, we actually create a climate inhospitable to the free and easy fulfillment of those desires.
Tom Robbins
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Desires remain but should not define us; being overly attached to them leads to dissatisfaction.

In this quote, Tom Robbins expresses the idea that while our desires may persist, our identity should not be intertwined with them. This detachment allows us to experience desires more freely without the fear of disappointment, fostering an environment where those desires can be fulfilled more easily. By not taking our desires too seriously, we create a healthier mindset that enables the possibilities of achieving them.

Themes

DesireIdentityAttachmentDisappointmentFulfillment

In practice

Example use cases

During a motivational seminar, to emphasize the importance of detachment from desires.

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