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You know that I love you." And despite herself, Coraline nodded. It was true. The other mother loved her. But she loved Coraline as a miser loves money, or a dragon loves its gold. In the other mother's button eyes, Coraline knew that she was a possession, nothing more. A tolerated pet, whose behavior was no longer amusing.
Neil Gaiman
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote illustrates a twisted form of love that is possessive and controlling rather than genuine.

In this passage from Neil Gaiman's work, Coraline recognizes that the love she receives from the other mother is not true love but a possessive obsession. This type of love is likened to that of a miser hoarding wealth or a dragon cherishing its treasure; it is selfish and objectifying, reducing Coraline to a mere possession rather than valuing her as an individual. This serves as a cautionary reminder about the nature of love that is based on ownership rather than mutual respect and care.

Themes

LovePossessionRelationshipControlTrust

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be shared in a discussion about toxic relationships in a psychology class.

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