The comic spirit is given to us in order that we may analyze, weigh, and clarify things in us which nettle us, or which we are outgrowing, or trying to reshape
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A man looks pretty small at a wedding, George. All those good women standing shoulder to shoulder, making sure that the knot's tied in a mighty public way.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote implies that weddings highlight the collective support of women in unifying a couple's commitment.
Thornton Wilder's quote reflects on the significance of a wedding ceremony, emphasizing how it serves as a public affirmation of love and commitment. The imagery of 'good women standing shoulder to shoulder' illustrates the role of the community in supporting the couple, as well as portraying the man as seemingly diminished in contrast to the powerful collective presence of women. This suggests that weddings are not just individual events but are steeped in cultural and communal importance.
Themes
WeddingCommunityCommitmentSupportLove
In practice
Example use cases
This quote could be shared during a wedding toast to emphasize the importance of community in a marriage.
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