Death is the sound of distant thunder at a picnic.
W. H. AudenRead
We do not change as we grow up. The difference between the child and the adult is that the former doesn't know who he is and the latter does.
Interpretation
Growing up brings self-awareness, distinguishing children who are still discovering themselves from adults who have a clearer understanding of their identity.
This quote by W. H. Auden suggests that the process of growing up is less about changing in essence and more about discovering one's true self. While children are often in a state of exploration and uncertainty regarding their identity, adults typically reach a stage where they possess a better understanding of who they are, highlighting a journey of self-realization rather than transformation.
In practice
During a motivational talk on personal development.
Death is the sound of distant thunder at a picnic.
That the speech of self-disclosure should be translatable seems to me very odd, but I am convinced that it is. The conclusion that I draw is that the only quality which all human being without exception possess is uniqueness: any characteristic, on the other hand, which one individual can be recognized as having in common with another, like red hair or the English language, implies the existence of other individual qualities which this classification excludes.
Nobody knows what the cause is, though some pretend they do; it like some hidden assassin waiting to strike at you. Childless women get it, and men when they retire; it as if there had to be some outlet for their foiled creative fire.
History is, strictly speaking, the study of questions; the study of answers belongs to anthropology and sociology.
Music is the best means we have of digesting time.
'Healing,' Papa would tell me, 'is not a science, but the intuitive art of wooing nature.'
I'm bred for farm work, and for such folk, the only A's you get come from effort. Strife and strain are all the world can offer, and they temper you into something unbreakable because Lord knows they'll try -- without let up -- to break you.
There are some men in this world who are born to do our unpleasant jobs for us. Your father's one of them.
Grief is a matter of the heart and soul. Grieve your loss, allow it in, and spend time with it.
You're getting well,' Samuel said. 'Some people think it's an insult to the glory of their sickness to get well. But the time poultice is no respecter of glories. Everyone gets well if he waits around.
Avoiding problems you need to face is avoiding the life you need to live.
As I get older... I start to realize that life ain't half bad. Each year, I'm amazed that I'm still alive. I don't take any of this for granted, I'm a lucky dude.
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