I'm sad to report that in the past few years, ever since uncertainty became our insistent 21st century companion, leadership has taken a great leap backwards to the familiar territory of command and control.
It's not differences that divide us. It's our judgments about each other that do.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Judgments about others, rather than our differences, create division among us.
This quote emphasizes that it is not our inherent differences that separate us as individuals or communities, but rather our perceptions and judgments about those differences. When we judge others based on their unique traits, backgrounds, or beliefs, we foster division and conflict instead of understanding and unity. By recognizing that our judgments often stem from misunderstanding, we can begin to break down these barriers and promote greater acceptance and harmony.
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Example use cases
In a speech about community development, one could use this quote to emphasize the importance of understanding and acceptance.
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