'I hate discussions of feminism that end up with who does the dishes,' she said. So do I. But at the end, there are always the damned dishes.
Interpretation
The quote criticizes discussions about feminism that reduce the conversation to domestic duties. It emphasizes the importance of acknowledging underlying issues despite the trivial arguments.
Marilyn French's quote reflects the frustration with how feminist discussions can often devolve into mundane topics, like household chores, instead of addressing the deeper societal issues related to gender equality. She notes that while these discussions may seem trivial, they often encapsulate the persistent and tangible responsibilities that women face, highlighting the ongoing struggle for genuine equality beyond surface-level conversations.
In practice
This quote could be used during a panel discussion on gender roles to highlight the need for deeper conversations.
S and M is only the expression in the bedroom of an oppressive-submissive relation which can happen also in the kitchen or at the factory, can happen between people of any gender. There is obviously something titillating about these relationships, but it isn't the sexual components that makes them ugly, they're uglier elsewhere. Nothing sexual is depraved. Only cruelty is depraved, and that's another matter.
Later, she would remember these years, and realize with astonishment that she had, by fifteen, decided on most of the assumptions she would carry for the rest of her life: that people were essentially not evil, that perfection was death, that life was better than order and a little chaos good for the soul. Most important, this life was all. Unfortunately, she forgot these things, and had to remember them the hard way.
To nourish children and raise them against odds is in any time, any place, more valuable than to fix bolts in cars or design nuclear weapons.
In a great gasp, puts her head in her hands again and cries as if her throat were a cave, as if the howling winds came from her belly, she cries like a storm that will never end.
Women are afraid in a world in which almost half the population bears the guise of the predator, in which no factor - age, dress, or color - distinguishes a man who will harm a woman from one who will not.
When they kept you out it was because you were black; when they let you in, it is because you are black. That's progress?
That fiend!" Mr. Darling would cry, and Nana's bark was the echo of it, but Mrs. Darling never upbraided Peter; there was something in the right-hand corner of her mouth that wanted her not to call Peter names.
Legislative proposals that would enable an employer to determine whether or not a woman's insurance would cover the cost of birth control strikes women as particularly bizarre. Is the boss going to take care of the children that are conceived accidentally? Stop treating us like children. Women are grown ups.
Surround yourself with people whose definition of you is not based on your history, but your destiny.
In the taxi I let my hand lie on her leg like a promise, but I had no intention of keeping my promise.
A real important thing is that, though I rely on my husband for love, I rely on myself for strength.
a good marriage is that in which each appoints the other guardian of his solitude
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