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Don't we forgive everything of a lover? We forgive selfishness, desire, guile. As long as we are the motive for it...There are some European words you can never translate properly into another language.
Michael Ondaatje
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Interpretation

What this quote means

In love, we often overlook our partner's flaws and selfishness as long as they desire us.

This quote highlights the unconditional nature of love, suggesting that when we are the object of a lover's affection, we tend to forgive their shortcomings and selfish behaviors. It points to the deep emotional connection that can allow individuals to overlook negative traits if the love is genuine, even hinting at the complexity of love and the challenges of translation between cultures, where profound feelings may not be easily conveyed.

Themes

ForgivenessLoveSelfishnessDesireEmotions

In practice

Example use cases

During a Valentine's Day speech about the complexities of love and forgiveness.

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