You will come to know things that can only be known with the wisdom of age and the grace of years. Most of those things will have to do with forgiveness.
Cheryl StrayedRead
Don’t do what you know on a gut level to be the wrong thing to doI don’t think there’s a single dumbass thing I’ve done in my adult life that I didn’t know was a dumbass thing to do while I was doing it. Even when I justified it to myself—as I did every damn time—the truest part of me knew I was doing the wrong thing. Always. As the years pass, I’m learning how to better trust my gut and not do the wrong thing, but every so often I get a harsh reminder that I’ve still got work to do.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the importance of listening to our inner voice and recognizing when we are making wrong choices.
Cheryl Strayed reflects on her life's experiences, highlighting that she often knew when she was making poor decisions, despite rationalizing them. The quote reveals a journey of self-awareness, where she learns to trust her intuition more as time passes, illustrating the continuous struggle of making good choices and the lessons learned from past mistakes.
Themes
IntuitionDecision MakingSelf-AwarenessMistakesGrowth
In practice
Example use cases
A speaker at a personal development seminar might use this quote to encourage attendees to trust their instincts.
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