Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
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Earnest in practicing the ordinary virtues, and careful in speaking about them, if, in his practice, he has anything defective, the superior man dares not but exert himself; and if, in his words, he has any excess, he dares not allow himself such license.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of integrity and moderation in both actions and speech.
In this quote, Confucius highlights the virtues of a superior person who diligently practices ordinary virtues while being mindful of their words. This individual acknowledges their flaws and strives for self-improvement, recognizing the need to maintain balance and avoid excesses in both conduct and expression.
Themes
VirtueIntegritySelf-ImprovementModerationWisdom
In practice
Example use cases
In a leadership seminar when discussing the importance of honesty and accountability.
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