Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
Never give a sword to a man who can't dance.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote suggests that one should not give power or responsibility to those who lack the skill or grace to handle it properly.
Confucius' saying highlights the importance of capability and preparation in wielding power or authority. Just as a dancer must possess the skills to perform well, a person entrusted with significant responsibility, symbolized by the 'sword', must also be adept and competent. The quote encourages us to consider the qualifications and abilities of individuals before placing them in positions where their actions can have serious consequences.
Themes
In practice
Example use cases
During a leadership seminar, one might use this quote to emphasize the importance of choosing the right leaders who are skilled and capable.
More from Confucius
All quotes βEarnest in practicing the ordinary virtues, and careful in speaking about them, if, in his practice, he has anything defective, the superior man dares not but exert himself; and if, in his words, he has any excess, he dares not allow himself such license.
When you see a good person, think of becoming like her/him. When you see someone not so good, reflect on your own weak points.
The superior man is distressed by the limitations of his ability; he is not distressed by the fact that men do not recognize the ability that he has.
Success depends upon previous preparation, and without such preparation there is sure to be failure.
An angry man is full of poison.
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