If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
Every December, I host a tree-trimming party. I serve chili with cornbread and lots of good wine. It's a wonderful party, and it shows how much adults like to play.
Interpretation
The quote highlights the joy and importance of adult playfulness and communal celebration during the holiday season.
In this quote, Maya Angelou reflects on the simple joys of gathering with friends and loved ones to celebrate the holiday season. By hosting a festive tree-trimming party, she emphasizes the idea that, despite being adults, people still cherish the spirit of play, connection, and joy that comes from shared experiences, good food, and camaraderie.
In practice
In a holiday speech, you might say, 'As Maya Angelou reminds us, life is about joy and connection, just like her tree-trimming party.'
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
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I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
Happy people do not demand a lot from the world because their happiness proceeds from a place deeper than the world can touch.
A happy New Year! Grant that I May bring no tear to any eye When this New Year in time shall end Let it be said I've played the friend, Have lived and loved and labored here, And made of it a happy year.
The journey to happiness involves finding the courage to go down into ourselves and take responsibility for what's there: all of it.
Sitting back in the evening, stargazing and stroking your dog, is an infallible remedy.
Happiness has nothing to do with what you have or don't have. Happiness is related to what you are. However many things you may collect, perhaps they may increase your worries, your troubles, but happiness will not increase because of them. Certainly unhappiness will increase with them, but they have no relation to an increase in your happiness.
It is the pursuit of happiness that thwarts happiness.
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