To feed men and not to love them is to treat them as if they were barnyard cattle. To love them and not respect them is to treat them as if they were household pets.
MenciusRead
Every duty is a charge, but the charge of oneself is the root of all others.
Interpretation
Taking responsibility for oneself is the foundation for fulfilling other responsibilities.
This quote by Mencius highlights the significance of self-discipline and personal responsibility as essential components of one's duties. By recognizing that our own well-being and moral integrity influence our ability to fulfill obligations towards others, the quote emphasizes that inner accountability is the primary charge that shapes our external responsibilities in life.
In practice
In a motivational speaking event discussing personal growth and integrity.
To feed men and not to love them is to treat them as if they were barnyard cattle. To love them and not respect them is to treat them as if they were household pets.
If the King loves music, it is well with the land.
Let not a man do what his sense of right bids him not to do, nor desire what it forbids him to desire. This is sufficient. The skillful artist will not alter his measures for the sake of a stupid workman.
I dislike death, however, there are some things I dislike more than death. Therefore, there are times when I will not avoid danger.
Truth uttered before its time is dangerous.
Where it is permissible both to die and not to die, it is an abuse of valour to die.
It is disgraceful to live at the cost of one's self-respect. Self-respect is the most vital factor in life. Without it, man is a cipher. To live worthily with self-respect, one has to overcome difficulties. It is out of hard and ceaseless struggle alone that one derives strength, confidence and recognition.
It is also a natural thing for a serious young man that he should form for himself as precise an idea as possible of the goal of his desires.
Jesters do oft prove prophets.
Your best ideas, those eureka moments that turn the world upside down, seldom come when you're juggling emails, rushing to meet the 5 P.M. deadline or straining to make your voice heard in a high-stress meeting. They come when you're walking the dog, soaking in the bath or swinging in a hammock.
Self-confidence without self-reliance is as useless as a cooking recipe without food. Self-confidence sees the possibilities of the individual; self-reliance realizes them. Self-confidence sees the angel in the unhewn block of marble; self-reliance carves it out for oneself.
When you suffer, don't speak. Look inside and listen for the duaa He inspires in you. and then ask Him. Again and again. Don't stop.
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