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Every woman while she would be ready to die of shame if surprised in the act of generation, nonetheless carries her pregnancy without a trace of shame and indeed with a kind of pride. The reason is that pregnancy is in a certain sense a cancellation of the guilt incurred by coitus; thus coitus bears all the shame and disgrace of the affair, while pregnancy, which is so intimately associated with it, stays pure and innocent and is indeed to some extent sacred.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the complex feelings of shame and pride associated with coitus and pregnancy.
Arthur Schopenhauer's quote highlights the paradoxical nature of societal views on sexuality and motherhood. While the act of coitus is often laden with shame, pregnancy is perceived as a sacred and pure state, allowing women to shift their feelings of guilt from the act of sexual intercourse to a sense of pride in motherhood. This duality illustrates how cultural perspectives can shape our emotions and values regarding body and identity.
Themes
PregnancyShamePrideCoitusSocietyMotherhood
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about women's empowerment, this quote illustrates the contradiction in societal views on sexuality.
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