Remember: the time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself. Life's cruelest irony.
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My own experience with being interviewed is mixed. I suppose they're a part of my job, and as I would like readers to connect with my books, I do them. I've also made many lifelong friends whom I first encountered as interviewers - as a writer, they're a terrific way to meet and add smart new people to one's life.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Interviews can be both a professional obligation and an opportunity to form meaningful connections.
In this quote, Douglas Coupland reflects on his mixed feelings about interviews, acknowledging that while they are an expected aspect of his job as a writer, they also serve as a valuable means to connect with new and interesting people, many of whom become lifelong friends. This perspective highlights the dual nature of professional interactions, where obligation meets opportunity for personal growth and connection.
Themes
InterviewsRelationshipsFriendshipWritersConnections
In practice
Example use cases
This quote could be shared before a panel discussion at a writers' conference to encourage networking.
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