Now that Arab women are pouring into the streets by the million, men discover with dismay that they, not women, were the captives of the harem dream.
To understand the fanatic rejection of women's liberation in the Muslim world, one has to take into account the time factor. Most of us educated women have illiterate mothers. The conservative wave against women in the Muslim world is a defense mechanism against profound changes in both sex roles and the touchy subject of sexual identity.
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What this quote means
The quote highlights the resistance to women's liberation in the Muslim world as a response to changing societal roles and identities.
Fatema Mernissi's quote reflects on the complex dynamics of women's liberation in the Muslim world, attributing the backlash against it to deep-seated cultural and historical factors. She points out that many educated women come from backgrounds with illiterate mothers, indicating a generational shift in awareness and rights. The conservative pushback can be seen as a defensive reaction to the evolving roles of women and the sensitive topic of sexual identity, suggesting that the struggle for liberation is entangled with broader societal changes that challenge established norms.
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This quote can be used in a women's rights seminar to illustrate the complexities of cultural traditions.
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Educated women armed with computers have defeated extremists by denying them a monopoly to define cultural identity and interpret religious texts. No extremist can say that women are inferior to men without being made a laughingstock on Al Jazeera. Islam insisted on equality between everyone.
You find in the Koran hundreds of verses to support women's rights, and perhaps four or five that do not.
If women's rights are a problem for some modern Muslim men, it is neither because of the Quran nor the Prophet, nor the Islamic tradition, but simply because those rights conflict with the interests of a male elite.
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