We're always observing, and we're cautious people. We really want attention, but at the same time, we're ashamed of wanting attention. All those bizarre qualities of being outside are necessary for being a writer.
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My father was born on Christmas Day in 1934. He grew up in what is now part of North Korea. When the Korean War began, my father was 16, and he found passage on an American refugee ship,thinking he'd be gone for just a few days, but he never saw his mother or his sister again.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote reflects on the impact of war on family and the loss experienced by individuals during such tumultuous times.
Min Jin Lee’s quote highlights the profound personal loss and separation caused by the Korean War. It captures the tragic story of her father, who, despite initially believing he would only be away for a short time, ended up losing contact with his mother and sister forever. This illustrates how war can irrevocably alter family ties and the direction of a person's life.
Themes
WarLossFamilySeparationRefugee
In practice
Example use cases
During a speech about the impact of war, I might use this quote to illustrate personal sacrifices.
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