You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Elizabeth GilbertRead
Fear can have a voice, but it doesn't get a vote.
Interpretation
Fear may speak to us, but it shouldn't determine our choices.
This quote by Elizabeth Gilbert emphasizes the idea that while fear may express itself and influence our thoughts, it ultimately should not dictate our decisions or actions. It encourages individuals to recognize their fears without allowing those fears to control their lives, suggesting that we have the power to choose how we respond to our fears.
In practice
In a motivational speech about overcoming challenges, you might say, 'Remember, fear can have a voice, but it doesn't get a vote.'
You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Do not apologize for crying. Without this emotion, we are only robots.
I had always been taught that the pursuit of happiness was my natural (even national) birthright. It is the emotional trademark of my culture to seek happiness. Not just any kind of happiness, either, but profound happiness, even soaring happiness. And what could possibly bring a person more soaring happiness than romantic love.
When I tried this morning, after an hour or so of unhappy thinking, to dip back into my meditation, I took a new idea with me: compassion. I asked my heart if it could please infuse my soul with a more generous perspective on my mind's workings. Instead of thinking that I was a failure, could I perhaps accept that I am only a human being--and a normal one, at that?
And when you sense a faint potentiality for happiness after such dark times you must grab onto the ankles of that happiness and not let go until it drags you face-first out of the dirt - this is not selfishness, but obligation. You were given life; it is your duty to find something beautiful within life no matter how slight.
But never again use another person's body or emotions as a scratching post for your own unfulfilling yearnings.
I grew up in a culture in which it was a sin for a woman to speak out.
The ability to be cool, confident, and decisive in crisis is not an inherited characteristic but is the direct result of how well the individual has prepared himself for the battle.
Develop enough courage so that you can stand up for yourself and then stand up for somebody else.
When the mob and the press and the whole world tell you to move, your job is to plant yourself like a tree by the river of truth, and tell the whole world - No, you move.
In other words, let's give our young women the right weapons to fight with as they charge naked into battle, instead of ordering them to get back in the house and put some goddamn clothes on.
There is no doubt the charge was an awful gamble and that no normal precautions were possible. The issue as far as I was concerned had to be left to Fortune or to God - or to whatever may decide these things. I am content and shall not complain.
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