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Marrying the first person who offers you a decent position in society. Love can wait.
Paulo Coelho
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote suggests that one should not rush into marriage for social status, implying that true love is more valuable.

Paulo Coelho's quote critiques the idea of marrying for convenience or societal approval rather than for love. It emphasizes the importance of waiting for genuine feelings and connections, rather than compromising one's heart for a socially advantageous relationship.

Themes

MarriageLoveSocietyRelationshipsStatus

In practice

Example use cases

In a speech about the importance of true love over social expectations.

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