We cannot control the evil tongues of others; but a good life enables us to disregard them.
Cato The ElderRead
I think the first virtue is to restrain the tongue; he approaches nearest to gods who knows how to be silent, even though he is in the right.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The ability to stay silent demonstrates great wisdom and self-control, even in the face of correctness.
This quote by Cato The Elder emphasizes the importance of restraint, particularly when it comes to speaking. It suggests that true virtue lies in knowing when to be silent, as those who can do so, even when they are right, exhibit a level of maturity and connection to divine qualities. Silence can be more powerful than words, reflecting wisdom and understanding in a world where many often speak without thought.
Themes
SilenceRestraintWisdomSelf-ControlCommunication
In practice
Example use cases
During a heated debate, one might quote Cato to encourage others to pause and think before reacting.
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