We cannot control the evil tongues of others; but a good life enables us to disregard them.
Cato The ElderRead
Lighter is the wound foreseen.
Interpretation
Anticipating difficulties can make them easier to bear.
The quote from Cato The Elder emphasizes the value of foresight in life. By recognizing and preparing for potential challenges before they arise, we can diminish their emotional impact, making us more resilient and capable of handling adversity.
In practice
During a motivational speech about stress management in the workplace.
We cannot control the evil tongues of others; but a good life enables us to disregard them.
An angry man opens his mouth and shuts his eyes.
I think the first virtue is to restrain the tongue; he approaches nearest to gods who knows how to be silent, even though he is in the right.
Tis sometimes the height of wisdom to feign stupidity.
Patience is the greatest of all virtues.
An orator is a good man who is skilled in speaking.
You don't attack the grunts of Vietnam; you blame the theory behind the war. Nobody who fought in that war was at fault. It was the war itself that was at fault. It's the same thing with psychotherapy.
I know not anything more pleasant, or more instructive, than to compare experience with expectation, or to register from time to time the difference between idea and reality. It is by this kind of observation that we grow daily less liable to be disappointed.
I must try to be alone for part of each year...and part of each day...in order to keep my core, my center...Women must be still as the axis of a wheel in the midst of her activities. She must be the pioneer of achieving this stillness, not only for her own salvation, but for the salvation of family life, of society, perhaps even of our civilization.
The true self, once discovered, is the source of creativity, intelligence and personal growth. No external solution has such power.
In forming a judgment, lay your hearts void of foretaken opinions; else, whatsoever is done or said, will be measured by a wrong rule; like them who have jaundice, to whom everything appears yellow.
Borrowing knowledge of reality from all sources, taking the best from every study, Science of Mind brings together the highest enlightenment of the ages.
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