...the face has limited space. My mother used to say, if you fill your face with laughing, there will be no more room for crying.
Rohinton MistryRead
What folly made young people, even those in middle age, think they were immortal? How much better, their lives, if they could remember the end. Carrying your death with you every day would make it hard to waste time on unkindness and anger and bitterness, on anything petty. That was the secret: remembering your dying time, in order to keep the stupid and the ugly out of your living time.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the importance of being aware of mortality to live a more meaningful and compassionate life.
Rohinton Mistry reflects on the folly of youth and the tendency to feel invincible, suggesting that a conscious awareness of our mortality can profoundly affect how we choose to live. By reminding ourselves of our limited time, we can prioritize kindness, love, and authenticity over trivial concerns and negativity, enriching our experience and relationships.
Themes
MortalityLifeWisdomKindnessAwareness
In practice
Example use cases
In a leadership seminar, to encourage empathy and understanding among team members.
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