...the face has limited space. My mother used to say, if you fill your face with laughing, there will be no more room for crying.
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But nobody ever forgot anything, not really, though sometimes they pretended, when it suited them. Memories were permanent. Sorrowful ones remained sad even with the passing of time, yet happy ones could never be recreated - not with the same joy. Remembering bred its own peculiar sorrow. It seemed so unfair: that time should render both sadness and happiness into a source of pain.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote reflects on the permanence of memories and the bittersweet nature of remembering both joy and sorrow.
Rohinton Mistry's quote delves into the complexity of human memory, highlighting that while we may try to forget painful experiences, memories remain indelibly etched in our minds. The duality of memories illustrates how both joy and sorrow coalesce, as reminiscing can evoke a profound sense of loss, because the happiness of the past cannot be recaptured in the present, thereby leading to a unique form of sorrow that arises from the passage of time.
Themes
MemoriesSorrowHappinessTimePain
In practice
Example use cases
In a conversation about coping with loss, this quote can be shared to express how memories affect our emotional state.
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